1- Tell each other that you love each other.
2- Never both be angry at the same time.
3- If you have to criticise, do it lovingly.
4- Never bring up old mistakes.
5- Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
6- Neglect the whole dunya, rather than each other.
7- Pray together atleast once a day.
8- Remermber that behind every successful spouse is an exhausted partner.
9- Do not go to bed more than 10min after your partner.
10- Remember, it takes two to quarrel.
11- When you have done something wrong, admit it.
12- Listen when your partner is speaking.
13- Remember that your spouse is more important than the televison / match / video games etc.
14 - Notice when your partner is wearing something new or has a new hairdo.
15- Remember anniversaries.
16- Thank your partner for their gifts or their effort on your behalf.
17- Last one up, make the bed.
18- Notice when your spouse looks tired, and do something about it.
19- Never run your partner down, or criticise them in public.
20- Atleast once a day, say something kind or complimentary to your partner.
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